Healing loss, rebuilding self-worth, and finding hope.
Some losses don’t come with funerals.
Some people are still alive, but the relationship you knew is gone.
Grieving the living is a form of loss that is often unseen and misunderstood. This program exists to give that grief a voice, a space, and support.
Why This Program Exists
I grew up in foster care. The people who became my mum and dad were taken from my life when I was ten years old.
That loss didn’t just take people from me; it shaped how I saw myself. I grew up struggling with abandonment, low self-worth, people-pleasing, and the belief that I was never enough.
As an adult, I shared my story through a book about my childhood trauma. But I learned that understanding trauma is not the same as healing it. People need support to rebuild, to fill the void, and to regain a sense of worth.
That is why I created this program.
Who It’s For
This program is for anyone grieving someone who is still alive, including:
- Estranged parents or family members.
- Loved ones affected by illness or dementia.
- Sudden loss of a relationship without closure.
If you have ever felt abandoned, invisible, or alone in your grief, this space is for you.
What the Program Supports
- Processing grief for the living.
- Healing abandonment wounds.
- Rebuilding self-worth and confidence.
- Letting go of people-pleasing and survival patterns.
- Learning that you are enough.
Why It’s Free
Healing should not be a privilege.
This program will be free so that support is accessible to those who need it most, made possible through charitable funding, and hopefully, we will be running this program back-to-back to avoid unwanted waiting lists.